Never turn down a “helping hand”!

Guys, never turn down a “helping hand!” Now, while hand jobs were the stuff wet dreams were made of as preteens, I’m going to admit with nearly two decades of practice under my belt I’m looking for a little bit more than just a helping hand. But what I’m talking about today is a helping hand to get you the helping hand (or more than a helping hand). Now don’t get lost in the last sentence, stick with me. Today I’m bringing you information on how to get online dating sites to do the work for you so you can sit back and enjoy the rewards.

 Ok, so quick review in guys rule online dating 101…make sure you’re on the right site for what you’re looking for. Want nsa sex? Don’t sign up as a member for an online site that is attracting people interested in long-term relationships. If you didn’t read the last blog, you can go back and read at your leisure. It will save you time and money. Now that you’re on the right site, let me share a little bit of what happened to me in the past… In the beginning, I tended to find myself a bit “visually distracted.” We’re guys! We’re visual! The problem was, I was sidetracked by the pics and I skimmed the written parts. So I had some hot dates with nothing in common. I found out I personally had more luck with sites that helped me out in the finding women department. That probably doesn’t sound good…this is what I mean…some sites ask you questions up front to see what you’re looking for and then THEY search through all the users to find potential dates that match what you’re looking for instead of you trying to search hundreds of profiles looking for someone and trying not to go blind at the same time.

This site is new: Chemistry.com They not only ask you ?s up front, and then send potential dates to your inbox daily (they match by compatibility and passion). You get to give feedback to them (the site) on the people they’re sending you. They constantly update what you’re looking for until everyone they’re sending you is exactly what you’re looking for. We know several friends who are using this site and really liking it.

That site wasn’t around when I met my fiance. We met here: Match.com another site that matches people based on what they’re looking for. Like I said, it was nice for me to have a little help having other people doing the looking through all the profiles for me.Take advantage of these sites! Half the work is sorting through the profiles. Let them do it for you, and then you just have to work on making a good first impression (don’t worry, we’ll go into that too) with your emails. 

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